The Toxic Coworker
Editor’s Note…The following is a condensed transcript of an interview conducted with Carllrac, during his promotion of the 23rd and final season of the popular talent competition “Pole Survivor”- a network television pole dancing competition in which he was a celebrity judge for 5 seasons. In the interview conducted by the hosts of the daytime talk show “Martinis & Mamas”, Carllrac discusses his experience dealing with a toxic coworker:
“As a celebrated playboy billionaire, I've seen my fair share of strange situations and interesting interactions with people from all walks of life. But nothing could have prepared me for the drama that would unfold when I agreed to be a replacement judge on the primetime pole dancing competition, “Pole Survivor”. I had always been a bit skeptical of that show, and the producers approached me many times over the years to join the cast. They wanted me to infuse the show with a little bit more excitement and credibility due to my extensive experience rating exotic dancers in gentlemen’s clubs throughout the world. I knew the ratings were tanking and the relevance of the program was dwindling, but it was an opportunity to promote my new lifestyle brand “Korma en blue”, and the ability to connect with a wider audience was too good to pass up.
From the moment I stepped on set, I could sense a strange energy in the air. I was an outsider coming into a group that had been together for almost two decades, so I expected a little awkwardness. The other judges seemed pleasant enough, but one person stood out like a sore thumb: Suite Marie. Suite was an A-list Hollywood Madame turned nutritional shake spokesperson. Ms.Marie had a reputation for being difficult to work with and I quickly found out why.
From the very first day, she was rude to the crew, dismissive of the contestants, and openly spoke negatively about me behind my back. At first I thought it might have been her persona for the show. On television she was always stern, and would quibble with people. It made for good television, but the more time I spent with her it was clear that it wasn’t an act. She just had no respect for anyone else's opinion but her own. As a billionaire celebrity, I wasn't used to being talked down to or disrespected personally like this, let alone on national Tv. I couldn't believe that someone like Suite Marie would be allowed to behave this way on a nationally televised show.
As the days went by, the tension between us grew. I was hoping it was just sexual tension as any regular workplace setting I’ve been in, only in this environment I tried to be civil and professional, but Suite Marie's toxic behavior was starting to wear me down. She was always critical of an unhappy with people, and as a short woman was only nice to you if she needed something up high and out of reach for her. It was constant negativity, with the occasional bit of manipulation. I felt helpless and trapped, stuck in a toxic work environment with no way out. I knew that I couldn't continue like this, and something had to be done.
After a particularly bad incident with Suite Marie, I decided to take matters into my own hands. I went to the producers of the show and asked that she be removed from the panel of judges. I told them about her toxic behavior and how it was affecting everyone on set. There was a lot of hesitation at first because the creator of the show Merle Campmann, a close personal friend of mine, confided in me that Suite Marie was his half-sister. A fact he and the rest of the executive team needed to keep secret due to a strict nepotism policy that the network had, and he’d been abusing for decades. It turned out that if anyone knew, it could result in the termination of their contracts and legal issues that could cost them most of their personal assets. Fortunately, I had “accidentally” left my smartphone voice recording function on and was able to archive the whole conversation with Merle and his team. When I realized this and replayed the audio to him, to my surprise they agreed with my complaints of Ms Marie and promptly fired her from the show.
As relieved as I was to have Suite Marie gone, I couldn't help but feel guilty about getting her fired. I had never been in a situation like this before, and I wasn't sure if I had done the right thing. But as time passed, I realized that sometimes, it's necessary to take action to protect yourself and those around you from toxic coworkers.
Looking back on that experience, I learned a valuable lesson about dealing with toxic colleagues. It's important to be assertive and speak up when you're being mistreated. Don't be afraid to reach out to management or HR if necessary. And most importantly, don't let guilt or fear hold you back from taking action to protect yourself and others.”
—- Cornelius Carllracafeller III, in conversation with the, Martinis & Mamas Squad
Dealing with toxic coworkers can be a challenge, but there are some things you can do to minimize their impact on you and your work environment.
Here are some tips that may help:
Set boundaries
It's important to establish clear boundaries with toxic coworkers. Let them know what behaviors are not acceptable, and make it clear that you will not tolerate any mistreatment or abuse. This may involve saying "no" to unreasonable requests, avoiding engaging in gossip or negative conversations, and communicating your own boundaries clearly and assertively.
Stay professional
Regardless of how your coworkers behave, it's important to remain professional at all times. Avoid stooping to their level or reacting emotionally to their behavior. Instead, try to maintain a calm, rational approach to any interactions you have with them.
Document incidents
If a toxic coworker's behavior is particularly egregious or affecting your ability to work, it may be worth documenting incidents. This can help you build a case if you need to escalate the situation to a supervisor or HR representative. Make sure to keep detailed records of any incidents, including the date, time, location, and a description of what happened.
Seek support
Dealing with toxic coworkers can be stressful, so it's important to seek support from colleagues or friends outside of work. Having someone to talk to can help you process your feelings and come up with coping strategies.
Escalate the issue
If the situation becomes unmanageable, it may be necessary to escalate the issue to a supervisor or HR representative. Be prepared to provide evidence of the toxic coworker's behavior, and make it clear how it's impacting your work and the work environment.
Remember, you have the right to work in a safe and respectful environment. Don't hesitate to take action if you feel that your wellbeing or productivity is being compromised by a toxic coworker's behavior.
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